Sometimes It’s Just Not Going to Happen

Streaking. It has two meanings in the running world. One is running with no clothes on. The other is running without missing a day for a long time. Sounds like pure dedication. It also can be stupid. When is it okay to miss a day? The answer to this is simple. It’s okay to miss a day when other more important things take precedence.

What could possibly be more important than your run? How much time do you have? I could list a thousand things. For me it’s “run to live” not “live to run”. Running is supposed to make my life better. It’s not supposed to control my life. Several years ago, I had to quit running every day. My knees just won’t take it. So, the health of my knees dictates to me that I can’t run every day. That is just one of many things that can excuse me from running each day. Just as an aside, don’t think that I believe running is bad for knees. Too much running can make them sore, but all the latest legitimate research says running is not bad for your knees. I stress the word legitimate here. Lots of crap you can find on the internet (where everything is true) will say that running is bad for knees. That is just bullshit posted by people who don’t like to run. We were designed and meant to run.

I will get back on the topic before I rant for an hour about bad research. Anyway, I have lots of things in my life that are more important than running. I have to go to work. Without my income, I don’t get to eat. If it comes down to eating today or getting a run in, eating wins every time. So, for me, running has to fit in around my work schedule rather than work fitting in around my running schedule.

My family is more important to me than my running. My friend who is a timer for many races over the last 40 years and has known more runners than anyone I know, has told me stories about marriages broken up because the runner was so obsessed with running that they didn’t have time for the family. Very sad and misguided. If there are family obligations or maybe opportunities is a better word, enjoy them. Fit your run in around it. Never miss out on an opportunity to make a memory with your family. It’s one of those things you won’t regret on your death bed. I am unaware of anyone regretting that they didn’t get in another 5 mile training run that day 20 years ago when we had to do the event with the family instead.

Family time is priceless.

Health is a very important reason to miss a run. If you are injured, sometimes you just have to take a break and let it heal. Patience is extremely hard when you just know your fitness is evaporating right before your eyes. Sickness that needs rest is a problem for runners. I have read that if you have symptoms from the neck up, it’s probably okay to run but if it’s in your chest or elsewhere, you probably should take a break and recover. The sooner you recover, the sooner you can run at full strength again.

Injured? Suck it up and heal quickly!

My daughter and blog co-writer is 38 weeks pregnant. Running just isn’t in the cards for her at least for a few more weeks. But it won’t be long before she can go again and get that brief respite and mental health break that going for a run, even a short one, will give her. With a brand new baby occupying more time than a new parent can imagine, running will be a luxury for a while. The silver lining here is that I would tell any new parent that I wouldn’t trade any of my memories of time spent with my kids for any number of runs I could have done instead. Running opportunities will come but kids will grow up and be gone before you know it. I will be thrilled to spend time with my new grandson, even when it comes at the expense of a run. Or maybe a long run might turn into a shorter run so I have more time with the little future runner.

The summary of all of this is to make sure running is adding to your life rather than getting in the way of your life. The benefits of running are too numerous to list here. But I have had a much better life because I am a runner. Finding that balance between running and the rest of my life is the key.

Running should add to your life.

Keep running my friends (just keep it in perspective).


The First Spring Run

Happy Spring Forward Day!!

Yeah, turning the clocks ahead is kind of awful, but it signifies something wonderful.  It tells us that spring is really coming.  Even if it snows, ices, hails, even if it’s windy and cloudy and miserable, we know spring is just around the corner if we can only hang in there.

And that makes me think of one of favorite things about spring – the first spring run!  How do we define this?  I guess I think of my first spring run as the first run of the season that requires neither hat nor gloves nor jacket.  If I can run in cropped leggings with a long-sleeved tech shirt, then it feels like we’ve turned a corner.  Running without all the winter gear suddenly makes you feel so light on your feet!  You feel like you’re flying without being weighed down by all that baggage!

The First Run of Spring

Other signs of spring make me feel hopeful too. For example, seeing flowers starting to peek up through the dirt and buds on the trees – they remind us of how beautiful our surroundings once were and how beautiful they’ll be again this year!  Sometimes in the dull gray of winter, it’s easy to forget what the summer world looks like, but the much-needed reminders automatically brighten my day.

Then, of course, there are the other runners!  Of course, there are a select few who’ve been out hitting the streets all winter long.  The loyal purists who didn’t retreat to the treadmill, they’ll always be there.  But when spring comes, you can always tell by skyrocketing pedestrian traffic!  Some of them are new runners who have been sedentary all winter and just needed an excuse to get outside on a pleasant day.  Some of them are seasoned runners who just don’t prefer to run in the cold, and they’re returning to reclaim their little piece of the road.  Either way, the camaraderie of feeling part of a community of runners enjoying their Sunday mornings can’t be beat!

And then there’s the evening running!  Once the clocks have changed, the extra hour of daylight seems like an eternity!  It feels like you’ve gained another whole day at the end of your day!  It’s like you left work early!  What will you do with all this extra time?  Why not go for a little run?  Even though I don’t profess to be an evening runner, when I do occasionally work up the energy to get out there for a later run, the satisfaction of having completed it is literally the most perfect way to end the day.

So enjoy turning the clock ahead for all the promise it brings with it… even if you are a little sleepy on Monday morning.  That’ll go away eventually 🙂  Try coffee.

We’re All Winners Here ………. Maybe Not

I have watched a very disturbing trend over the last couple decades. Unfortunately, I have to say it seems to have started with my generation of baby boomers. That is the phenomenon of trying to convince our kids that they always win, they always did great and basically that they leave the bathroom smelling like roses every time they go in there. We never want our kids to feel bad ever. The “we’re all winners here” perception quickly turns into we’re all whiners here in reality. I see it in little kids sports when every kid on the team gets a trophy at the end of the season regardless of how good or bad they did or how good or bad the team was. I see it in schools when they no longer award the valedictorian at graduation. Well, we wouldn’t want to discourage the kids who weren’t valedictorians now would we?

I understand this movement is well intentioned. We want good self-esteem. We don’t want our kids to think they suck. We don’t want anyone to feel badly about themselves. Well, guess what. We all know whether we are good at something or not. When Jimmy or Jennifer finishes last in the race or strikes out every time they go to bat, they know they didn’t win no matter how big or shiny their brand new trophy or finisher medal is. Reality is that none of us are great at everything we do. There are lots of things I suck at. The sooner I realize this, the sooner I can do something about it. Life will chew up and spit out people who have an exaggerated opinion of themselves and their abilities. How dare my kid’s new boss expect him to do his job correctly? Hey, he tried his best. That’s all that matters isn’t it? Guess again.


So, we give out trophies and medals to those who just showed up and put in a little time. Those kids get the same rewards as those who knocked themselves out trying their best to actually get better at something. We don’t acknowledge the achievements of the ones who truly did do something better than anyone else just so the ones who didn’t do that well don’t feel left out. It’s possible to fool some people into thinking they are great when they aren’t but it’s really sad to see them fool themselves. It is also extremely counter-productive. Once someone believes they are great, and have a big-ass trophy to prove it, there is not much incentive to work hard to get better. After all, they got great at whatever without even trying. So why work hard? They must just be great at everything.

Nothing truly makes you believe you are good at something like actual results. Sooner or later, life smacks everyone in the face. For me, my first memory of that was in third grade when baseball season started. It was a given that I would end up as a major league ball-player and third grade would begin the journey. When my mom or dad pitched to me in the back yard, I was a dominating batter. Then that day I looked forward to for so long finally arrived. The third and fourth graders made their way to the ball field across the street after school on that day in April for the first day of tryouts. Also showing up that day was a dose of reality. Turns out I was not destined for the majors after all. I along with many of the third graders (who just like me weren’t very good) got cut from the team. This is not to fault the coaches for not keeping everyone. You just can’t have 40 kids on a baseball team and have any reasonable chance of everyone getting a chance to play.

It turned out that some of the dads did a great thing and made a team out of all of us who got cut. We were terrible, but we did get to play every game and had a ball. We didn’t get participation trophies at the end of the season, but we did get to play a game we all liked and ate a lot of ice cream that summer. Yes, we lost every game, even to the other team that was made up of kids who get cut from their school team. But we all moved on from the devastation of being cut and learned a little resiliency. Life lessons can be hard, but you are going to get them sooner or later no matter how much your parents try to shield you. Nobody, needs to be cruel about them, but a little honesty goes a long way in the end. It’s just so sad to see a young adult get their first experience with expectations for a job well done at their first actual job. The boss might be a nice person but still expects the job to be done correctly. If the newbie on the job isn’t getting it done, they are going to be out of a job sooner rather than later. Too bad for their self-esteem and too bad for their bank account.

So. Where does running fit into all of this? Running requires determination. Although I truly enjoy it most of the time, many are the days I just don’t feel like I want to slog out my next run. I believe that people with the determination to keep running year in and year out, on good days and bad ones, when it’s convenient and when it’s not, have the right stuff to become winners. No, we won’t all be winners in running. But, we can all get better. I will never win the local 5k. And at this point in my life I won’t get any more PR’s. But we can all set goals and work to reach them. If a goal is realistic, and you put in the time and work hard and eventually reach that goal, then nothing can stop your self-esteem from building. I absolutely love watching the back of the pack come in during a road race. Many of those people are doing their first race. They set a goal of finishing the local 5k and THEY DID IT! Whether they get a finisher medal or not, they reached their goal. They know they reached their goal. They put in the work and got the results! That is what it is all about. It sounds a bit dramatic, but that moment can be life changing. The overweight middle-aged mom who has given up any dreams of her own to focus on her kids who are now grown and gone, or the non-athletic guy who never even considered playing sports growing up because he was intimidated by the cooler and more athletic boys now have something that can never be taken away. Achievement! That is forever. Trophies and medals are cheap trinkets that can be bought any time for a price. Reaching a goal you worked hard and sacrificed for is priceless.

Finishing just ahead of the walkers but reaching their goal

Alright, we aren’t all going to win at sports. But can we all be winners? I say yes because I define being a winner differently. I look at being a winner as being a winner in life. Winning some race or baseball game is fun, but not important in the grand scheme. Winning in life is all that matters in the end. Who is a winner in life? That is the person who makes the world a better place because they are here. It has nothing to do with how many trophies they have or how big their home or bank account is. I think about one of the girls who was on my track team a few years back. She was not even close to being a good runner. She actually got worse as the season went on, probably due to my poor coaching. But, this girl was just an outstanding individual. She was a great student, honor roll every semester. She was involved with several community projects such as visiting the old folks at the nursing facility across the street from the school and she was just plain nice. The world is a better place because she is a part of it. She is a winner. I want to surround myself with people like her.

Will I be a winner today? I’m going for a run after I finish this, but I don’t think that will make me a winner. But, can I make someone smile? Can I help someone with a problem? Do I have the determination to solve a problem even though it will take some hard work? I sure hope so. Most likely nobody is going to give me a trophy if I do that. But, I will know I did it. And that is all that matters.

Be a winner and be awesome!

Keep running my friends!



Permission to Enjoy Time Off

We all enjoy our running on some level, or we wouldn’t have continued to do it and found ourselves reading or writing a running blog.  I don’t want to speak for everyone, but I can say that in my case, however, I’ve had plenty of days when running felt like a chore.  Plenty of days when the run on my schedule was something I just needed to cross off my list.  And the truth is that on plenty of those days, I ended up skipping a run that I had intended to do.  Sometimes I skipped a run because I didn’t prioritize it highly enough, and it didn’t end up fitting into my schedule.  Sometimes I skipped a run because I was feeling a little tired and having a hard time peeling myself off the couch.  Regardless of why, if there wasn’t a truly noble reason, I generally felt guilty afterwards.  I did not have permission to enjoy the rest, I was breaking the rules.

I find myself at a point most recently where it’s likely that I’ll skip lots of runs coming up.  In my final month of pregnancy, with sciatic pain flaring up to make even walking painful, I have come to terms with the reality that running… it’s just not going to happen for a few weeks here.  Normally, if I’ve made the decision to skip a run, my thoughts go to one of two places.  I can a) feel guilty about it and try to move on or b) try to substitute something else like cross-training if possible and still feel kind of guilty.

For example, when I was complaining about my Achilles pain recently, I still recognized that there were plenty of cross-training exercises available to me.  I knew that if I chose not to run, it wasn’t an excuse to skip my entire workout and sit around.  If I ended up being sedentary, I wasn’t able to enjoy it because I knew I hadn’t really done my best.

For once, however, I’m giving myself an option (c).  I’m giving myself permission to enjoy the rest time.  During the coming month, if things continue as they are, there will likely be few opportunities to cross-train without causing further discomfort.  In addition to that, after struggling to sleep most nights, my energy level isn’t exactly screaming “Let’s Go Run!!”  So maybe, after having explored all the options, the only thing left to do… is rest.  And maybe that means I’ve done my best, and I’m finally allowed to be satisfied with that (temporarily) for the time being.

Maybe I can use that time to do some of the things I’ve been meaning to do!  Maybe I’ll read a couple more books, maybe I’ll get a chance to finally take that photography class online.  Maybe I’ll make a time-consuming recipe.  And I’ll try to keep my sanity by planning.  If I can’t run today, then I’ll start making a plan for how to re-enter the running scene in a couple of months.  And hopefully my rest will have served me well by then.  Time will tell!  In any case, I’m trying to reflect on the fact that there have been many days in the past when I’ve craved a day or a week off.  Since I wasn’t able to enjoy those moments, I’m going to try to enjoy the coming ones with the peace of mind to recognize that this is just a phase.

Staying Young

Some people run in search of the fountain of youth. Trying to hang with the younger runners sounds like a worthy goal. At 62 that seems like something I should want. But for some reason I don’t want that. I don’t want to go back to 22, 32, 42 or even 52. I’ve been there, done that. I worked hard to get here, and I don’t have any desire to repeat it. I’m okay with 62. I just want to be a damn good 62.

I had a friend who was in her 90’s and she had spent a lifetime in the sun on the golf course. She was very wrinkled, and she assured me she had earned every one of those wrinkles. It completely turned around my way of looking at myself as the inevitable aging takes its toll. Each age spot, each wrinkle and each time a joint makes a weird noise, I can look at it as the payment I am making for all the fun I had so far.

So where does running fit in? With 50 years of running under my belt, I still get to kick a lot of younger runners’ asses in the local 5k. I will never win one but finishing in the top 30% is still fun. When that no longer happens, I will try to just enjoy seeing how I stack up in my age group. But it’s not so much about the competition as it is about how running makes me feel. I feel vibrant and alive when I am on a run. Knowing that I can run to anything I can see makes me feel very strong and capable. Not necessarily young but at least I feel good.

Some of that ability to continue has been pure luck, some has been hard work, and some has been careful and realistic planning. The luck is that my genetics has kept me from having any underlying major issues like a heart defect that would sideline me from running. The hard work has been the continuity of running on a regular basis for a long time. The consistency is the key. It’s much easier to stay in shape than to get in shape. The realistic planning is accepting that I can no longer run every day. I know I have to skip a day between each run. I can accept that it’s not a good thing for my knees to not give them more recovery time that I needed when I was younger.

So, with 72 and 82 looming in the future, how should I try to keep being a good 72 or 82 or whatever age I am? First, don’t compare myself to other people my age (maybe I should ignore those age group results). Many of them act like they are 20 years older than they are. They almost take pride in being decrepit and use their age as an excuse to be lazy. It just pisses me off when I hear a 40-year-old complain about getting old. I don’t remember who is credited with the quote “How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you were”. The more I think about that, the more profound it is. Research shows that we begin our physical decline in our late 20’s or even our early 30’s. But further research shows that decline should be much slower than our current culture shows. The book “Born to Run” has examples of the Mexican tribe who run amazing distances well into their later years. Nobody has ever told them they shouldn’t be able to do that.

Second, don’t grunt or groan when you get out of a chair. The first time I heard this, I realized that yes, I sometimes do that. Well, no more. Or at least I try not to do that. If you don’t sound like an old man, you are less likely to act like an old man.

Third, get out of the house. Get out and enjoy what this world has to offer. Be around people of all ages. Coaching a team of high school girls sometimes gives me more gray hair but mostly they make me laugh and help keep me young (or at least feeling young).

Fourth, laugh a lot. If you enjoy something, do it. If you like the movies, try to take in as many comedies as you can. Watch enough of the news to stay informed on what you need to know but when it just becomes depressing, turn it off and do something uplifting.

Laugh loud and often, just don’t pee yourself!

Fifth and finally, keep a purpose. I have watched many people retire through the years. Those who can’t wait to quit work, so they can sit on their fat asses and do nothing, don’t last very long. Those who can’t wait to quit work, so they can pursue other things they just haven’t had time for, do extremely well. You know they are doing well when they tell you they don’t know how they ever had time to work. Retiring to something instead of retiring from something is the way to go.

Finally, keep on running. My running will get slower and slower. It will eventually become walking. But, I have to keep moving as long as I am physically able. Never give in.

I want to be like these guys

Keep running my friends!

Train Like a Champion

So, you want to be the best. Well, you’ve got to train like the best. You want to be the state champ in the mile or the league cross country champion or the local 5k champion. What do the champs do? They train hard and don’t let anything get in their way. Sound like a plan yet? Unfortunately, it’s not quite that simple. Back in the 1960’s and early 70’s, the best miler in the US was Jim Ryun. One of his workouts was 20 x 400’s at 60 seconds with 60 seconds rest between each one. So, just go do that. Hmm, not so fast now. Now you see the problem. It’s nice to think about training like a champion but unless you are really special, you can’t do that particular workout. That doesn’t mean you can’t copy it. You just have to adjust it.

We all have the same basic physiology. To become better runners, we need more mitochondria and capillaries and aerobic enzymes. We also need a stronger heart, more anaerobic enzymes, better form with less wasted motion, a stronger core to help transfer those foot strikes into forward motion. The list of what we need goes way beyond the above items but that’s a good start. How do we get them? By training like a champion. We should be doing the same things champions do. The difference is in the quantity and quality of the workouts.

Champions go for long runs. You should go for a long run. Olympic caliber marathoners might have a 20-mile long run. Yours is not likely to be that long unless you are training for a marathon and you are a fairly advanced runner. If you are a beginner looking to finish your first 5k, your current long run might be 2 miles with a goal of working up to a full 3.1 miles. Now that’s not quite enough to start getting the actual benefits of a long run but it’s what the newbie can do and it’s a start. Maybe your long run (done no more than once per week) is 6 miles. That is long enough to start getting the benefits of a long run. You are building that aerobic base. As you recover from your long run, your body is getting busy building more capillaries to get more blood to your muscles. You are increasing the number of mitochondria in your muscle cells to give your muscles the energy they need to function for a long run. You are producing more of the enzymes the body uses to make aerobic energy metabolism a possibility. I can’t do a 20-mile long run. But if I was younger and had championship aspirations, I would certainly be increasing my weekend long run gradually over time to get closer to the champions’ long run.

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Keep that long run at a level you can sustain.

Champions do tempo work. Champions do anaerobic intervals. Champions do core work. Champions eat right. Champions sleep enough. The trick is to mimic what the champs do but at your level. For example, with the high school team I coach, typically all the 3200 runners are doing the same workout but at different intensities and quantities. Let’s use an anaerobic workout here in this example. In 2016 one of our girls won both the 1600 and 3200 at the state of Ohio track championships. A phenomenal accomplishment. Four weeks before the state meet, I had her and our one other 3200 runner do the same workout. They both had the same goal going into the workout. The goal was to improve their ability to use their anaerobic metabolism and deal with the problems their bodies faced when getting to the final stages of an intense 2-mile race. The difference between them was that they each did the workout at their level. One did 10×400 at her goal 3200 pace which was 78 seconds per lap. The next rep would start 3 minutes after the previous rep started, approximately a 1:1 ratio of work to recovery. That was a beast of a workout. The other runner also did 400’s at her 3200 pace, one every 3 minutes. The difference was that her pace was 95 seconds per lap and she also did 10 of them. So, she trained like a champion, just not the same speed. Our champ didn’t start out 3 years earlier doing a workout at that level. But she worked her way up to it. Our other runner might or might not ever get to that level, but you get there in steps. A less talented runner might have only been able to do 6 or 8 reps instead of 10 but she would still have gotten some anaerobic benefits.

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Here is what we want to achieve with an anaerobic workout.

The lesson is that it’s okay to look at what the big boys and girls are doing. But don’t think that you should copy their exact workouts. Just learn what they are trying to accomplish with each workout and maybe you can adapt it to your current level. If you are a 6-minute miler, you aren’t going to do a workout that a 4-minute miler can do. But just maybe you can take your next step to become a 5:45-minute miler and step up your workout plans from there. Those little steps are the path to Olympic dreams or just an improved 5k time. They are both worthy goals.

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I can still dream!

Keep running my friends.

Run-Walking, Didn’t See This Coming

So… as pregnancy rolls along, I’m finding that I continue to be challenged by running for more than a few minutes at a time.  The consistent pounding that my bladder takes is usually the rate limiting factor for my running “intervals” if you can call bursts of slow jogging “intervals.”

Hence, I’ve continued to cut back and adjust while clinging for dear life to any semblance of running that I can still achieve.  At the end of the week, if I’ve covered five total miles, then I can at least say that I was still a runner this week.  With eight weeks to go until my due date, my hope is that I can at least continue this adjusted version of my workouts until the bitter end.

I’ve always been skeptical of run/walk plans.  I know that Jeff Galloway has long advocated training by run/walking, but I always thought it actually seemed like it would be harder.  It seemed like it would be a challenge to find that groove that you get into when you’re running.  I’ve adopted a different perspective now that run/walking has become a necessity.  Instead of feeling like I’m getting off track, I now anticipate my walk breaks with excitement!  And because I’m taking things so slowly, I’m fully recovered and ready to run again when my next interval is slated to begin.

I don’t see myself marrying this run/walk strategy forever though.  I remain frustrated with my new workouts because I end a 30 minute treadmill session and find myself disappointed with the distance I’ve covered.  It’s discouraging to watch my fitness appear to wane.  However, I remain optimistic that doing what I can do now will allow me to bounce back more quickly later!

On a positive note, I think it’s likely that run/walking and continuing to reduce my overall mileage has had an overall positive effect on the healing of my Achilles tendon problem.  Silver lining?  Maybe good timing?  Or maybe I’ll just try to add mileage too quickly in a few months and find myself in the physical therapist’s office anyways.  Only time will tell.

Either way, I’ll be damned if I don’t make it to a half marathon this fall.  Man, do I miss races!